Have you been wondering what it takes to have twins? Or simply how to have twins? Well you’ve come to the right place… we’ve got answers to every question you could ever have about twins! And the best part is, it’s coming from a mom that’s raising twins right now!
Ironically we come from two families that don’t have twins running in our families, well, except going forward no one in our families can really say that as we broke the mold. With so many different stories about how to have girls or how to have boys we thought we would start collecting thoughts and different scientific ways of having twins or least put together some best practices. Of course there is always the artificial ways that significantly increase your chances in having multiples, but that is not what we are about. We are not against that either, we are more basing the stories of our site on our own similar experiences.
I think the first question is why? Why would you want to have twins? What is the appeal of having two mouths to feed, two butts to change, two kiddos to dress and the challenges of doing things in doubles continues throughout life. Minus maybe the small twin discount some stores give when you buy more than one item for multiples. Our reason was, we didn’t have one, it kind of just happened. We went to the ultrasound and discovered we were having the twin boys in pure shock. We wanted to know the sex, and found out so much more that day. After having the twins we can say that their are many great things about having the two at the same time. One big one is if you have complications in giving birth and want a bigger family you only have to go through one birthing process for the price of two. Another great benefit is they have a built in play buddy when it comes time to being in their room for bed time. The point is there are many pros and cons to having twins that each couple will experience differently. The reason I ask you what your why is because I firmly believe knowing why you want something sets off an internal “higher power” if you will or “intention” to create that in what you want. That is one of the key steps in how to have twins. Like I said before, there is scientific calculations of having boys and girls, but not really into timing for having twins, therefore if you are serious about wanting to know how to have twins then you should certainly keep an open mind into trying any alternative method.
So, you have your strong why. Next comes into aligning your intention with your body cycles of fertility. Let me give you an example of one thing that I did that I believe created a heavier fertility cycle within my body. As we were getting ready to have our baby, singular, I went and received foot zoning to align my bodies energies, or chakras, or whatever it was to be in line with getting pregnant. So I had two things going for me at this point, one, I wanted to be pregnant, and two, I was taking action to allow my body to do so. Again, kind of out of the box thinking.
Let me just interject with a stat for those reading saying yeah, or sometimes twins just happen. This is true. In fact it is estimated that about 1% or 1.2% of all pregnancy do in fact have twins under natural conception. So in reality you do have a better natural chance of having twins then winning the lottery. So, of course you need to heavily consider the fact that you can perhaps increase your chances in having twins but it does take the luck of the twin gods to fulfill the dream. Just remember even if you only have one baby you are blessed as there are many willing mothers that would kill for a chance just to experience what the birthing process would be like to have a child.
Another kind of fun superstitious thing that I have heard is being around other twins and being able to tell identical twins apart is a good karma toward the conception of twins. I’m convinced of this because my step-sister, I say step because I want you to realize their is no blood relation, had her twin girls prior to us conceiving our twin boys. In addition we are friends with a couple of others that are twins. So prior to us conceiving we had concentrated time being around twins. It is true that twins have their own language, just maybe twins also put out their own vibrations and connect with others. Again, I am just saying, remember this is all a reflection of thoughts based around the experiences that led up to us having twins which again neither of our families have dating back as far as history can tell us.
So, is there a true answer when the questions arises How to Have Twins? Of course there is, but it take a ton of money and is not done by the natural intercourse between a man and woman. They can spin sperm, they can do fertilization of multiple eggs in which they place and probably other procedures I don’t know about. Of course one of the easier natural ways to increase your chances is to be sleeping with a twin, that is a natural way. So if you are single and want to have twins, seek out some twin dating website, if they have one. If not, someone start one, your welcome! Only kidding. But if you are married and truly desire having twins, try something new. Do the superstitious things that you wouldn’t normally do. Go get your feet zoned, your chi balanced, your energy aligned, some acupressure or acupuncture, read books about twins, hang out with twins if possible. Keep reading articles like these to increase your awareness and harness the power inside you to create what you desire. I can’t tell you with certainty that you will have twins, but I can tell you I watched the first generations of twins born into our family based of the stories I shared with you.
Have fun, enjoy the process and you won’t be disappointed either way. After all, a happy healthy baby is a miracle in itself!